Install Linux Remote Desktop Protocol
$pi@raspberrypi ~ $ sudo apt-get install xrdp

For a really good terminal program for windows try

What is my Raspberry Pi IP Address?
$pi@raspberrypi ~ $ IP A
$pi@raspberrypi ~ $ hostname -I     
$pi@raspberrypi ~ $ ifconfig

What is my Raspberry Pi  network name?
$pi@raspberrypi ~ $ hostname -f
  (a.k.a. Fully Qualified Domain Name)

Did you know...
Raspberry Pi LAN chip is smart enough to reconfigure itself for direct network connections (in the past older computers would have needed a special “cross-over” cable).